Xbox Addresses Longstanding Community Desire for Friend Requests‘We’re So Back!’ Xbox Users Exclaim

Xbox is reviving a long-requested feature from the Xbox 360 era: friend requests. Announced via a blog post and on Twitter (X) earlier today, this news marks a shift from the more passive social system that has been in place for the past decade.

"We’re thrilled to announce the return of friend requests," exclaimed Xbox Senior Product Manager Klarke Clayton in their official announcement. "Friends are now a two-way, invite-approved relationship, giving you more control and flexibility." This means that Xbox users will once again have the ability to send, accept, or decline friend requests through the People tab on their consoles.

Previously, the Xbox One and Xbox Series X|S adopted a "follow" system, where users could see each other’s activity feeds without explicit approval. While this fostered a more open social environment, many missed the control and intentionality associated with friend requests. Although the system distinguished between friends and followers, the distinction was often unclear with no way to filter actual mutual connections, blurring the lines between friends and casual associates.

Existing friends and followers will also be automatically migrated to the appropriate category under the new system. "You’ll stay friends with people who had also added you as a friend previously and continue following anyone who hadn’t," clarified Clayton.

Furthermore, privacy remains a priority for Microsoft. The feature’s return will be accompanied by enhanced privacy and notification settings. Users will have the ability to control who can send them friend requests, who can follow them, and which notifications they receive. These settings will be accessible through the Xbox settings menu.

There is a playful undercurrent to some reactions, as some users didn’t even realize that the feature was ever absent. While this system appeals more to social gamers looking to build online connections, it doesn’t lessen the enjoyment of playing solo. After all, sometimes the best victories are achieved on your own terms.

In the meantime, you can join the Xbox Insiders program and be among the first to experience the feature’s return. Simply download the Xbox Insider Hub on your Xbox Series X|S, Xbox One, or Windows PC—it’s as easy as sending a friend request.